Great quote from my corner of the internet today! Kyle Brodzky has been dropping some truth about the Chick-Fil-A crap which is generalizable to far more than that. Someone brought it to the discussion table that we ought to just never be angry and never dislike anybody so that we can all get along because the alternative is to be EXTREMISTS and extremists are all equally destructive and wrong.
I’ve always just been raised believing that moderation is where true justice lies, free from bias or anger. I’m annoyed that sitting on poles is so popular, and even moreso by the fact that those wronged by zealotry, ignorance, and bigotry tend toward the same extreme black-and-white mentality. And maybe it is the fault of those who wronged them, but that doesn’t make it any less tragic.
Also he called us extremists, because the Golden Mean fallacy is never out of style.
Brodzky was not having it.
I totally get that (name redacted), that you see that people who are wronged can easily fall into the same polarized thinking. It’s sort of offensive that you’d have that prejudice, and use it to try to throw cold water on a very cut and dried social justice issue.
But I think that by stating outright that you automatically think that the wronged party here are already caught up in that is sort of offensive. No one’s dragging fry cooks behind their trucks on gravel roads. No one’s saying their marriages are invalid. No one’s saying fry cooks are literally causing a god to make earthquakes happen and kill people for their sins.
When there is a situation where it is clear who is wrong, and who is right, being ‘moderate’ is indefensible.
There’s no honor or valor or ethical highground or medal or trophy for ‘not getting involved’ when there’s very real, abject, and ugly human suffering going on. Sometimes the conscious, willful act of not choosing a side actually makes you a bad person. Not as evil as the people perpetrating heinous acts against your fellow people, but apathy, well, apathy means you’re not opposed to the violation of people’s lives. It means you don’t have the desire to do what a good person would do. It means you are content to rationalize a total disregard for people around you who are in pain, and rationalize it as a virtue.
And when you do that, when you make that apathy a virtue, you are making it harder for people who do care to make progress.
It’s literally unethical to go through life acting as if every issue is as important as “Chunky or Smooth.” There are times when you are actively hindering the creation of a better, more sane world, when you act as if these issues don’t affect you, or they aren’t worth getting upset about, or feeling anger or hatred about. If you view something as absolutely important as human rights, in the here and now, as a peanut butter issue not worth thinking about, or getting mad about, or really even spending any time on at all, then you are absolutely dragging down those around you.
If you think the world’s problems are dissolvable down to peanut butter issues you can feel smug about ignoring, then I really don’t know what to say. This is in part, truly, because you’re simply not a person worth talking to.